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Wednesday, 2 October 2013

Day Five With a Whole Lot of "No"

Day 5 of our adventurous, ridiculous, insane, wonderful, beautiful, chaotic, delicious, uncertain and long Journey to Turkey. 

One of the most disconcerting things is not being able to communicate with people. We have met a lot of locals who could speak English, but today we ended up in a small town where not many people could speak our language. And our Greek is nonexistent. We can ask a couple questions, however, today we needed to properly communicate and that was nearly impossible...

The morning started out really nice. We woke to our alarm going off, readied, packed the car, grabbed a quick chocolate croissant breakfast from the bakery down the street, and were on the road by 8 am. 

The drive through Greece was beautiful. Richard and I were both in awe of the countryside. There were mountains everywhere, ocean views, and beautiful farmland. It was supposed to be cloudy and stormy all day, but we were lucky and caught sun the whole way down. Greece's toll roads are MUCH cheaper than France and Italy's. Where France and Italy were about 20-40€ a toll, Greece was a mere 2.60€. 

We made really good time on our drive again today! We were pulling into Fanari at about 2:30. The sun was shining, the ocean inviting, and I was excited!! I couldn't wait to get to the beach to do a bit of swimming before the storm hit that we could see forming over the mountains behind us. After getting a bit lost in Fanari, we finally found our hotel at about 3pm. The hotel looked really nice! We were majorly excited. We unloaded ourselves and the baby and went inside to check in. 

There was a group of people sitting off to our right having a conversation. I saw a few of them look over at us and heard the word Agglika, I assume because they could hear us speaking English. I don't think they were too happy about our arrival time since it was the Greeks siesta between 2 and 5pm... 

A gentleman came towards us saying "Hello, can I help you?"

Yes! Someone who spoke English! Win! 

"Yeah we need to check in." 

We handed over our paperwork. At this point Richard says, "We have two dogs with us, is that okay?"

Let me cut in here to say, I booked this hotel through Expedia. I called them and asked if having my two big dogs would be okay. The told me, quote, "That will be okay." 

Okay. Back to the hotel. 

The gentleman checking us in looked up at us with what could only be described as disgust.

"No. We only allow one dog 5 kilos or less." 

My stomach sank at that. I have two huskies. At 27 kilos each they were way too big. 

We tried persuading the guy. Explaining that our dogs are well behaved, won't ever be left alone in the room, and will not make a mess inside. He asked us what kind of dogs we had and he said, "Oh, I know the type. No. They are not allowed." 

You know the type? What the hell does that mean! Seriously. You have got to be kidding me. 

I had personally looked at the website for this hotel and all it said was "Pet Friendly." Yeah. Pet friendly my butt!! Chihuahua friendly maybe. 

We tried negotiating a bit more at which point the guy got a bit rude. I was getting more and more upset. 

For once my adorable daughters crazy cuteness didn't work on the guy. 

He told us if we called Expedia and cancelled through them he would refund us fully. We told him we were moving and had no way to call anyone. He scoffed (yeah. Scoffed.) and asked us why we didn't have anything. BECAUSE WE ARE MOVING. 

We asked if he knew of any hotel in the area that would allow dogs to which he replied. 
"No."

Great, we were in the middle of Greece. Without a hotel. No way to call anyone. No way to find a hotel. And unable to speak the language

My dreams of beach bumdom were shot. 

That's when the tears started. 

I fancy myself a strong women. We've handled a lot of crud on this trip, and handled it well. 

Potentially not having a place to sleep? That's something I couldn't handle.

I really felt like such a failure. It was my responsibility to find dog friendly hotels and I had failed. 

No, it wasn't really my fault, but it didn't help me feel better about the fact that we didn't have a hotel... 

Who doesn't take a bribe, too? We tried to offer extra money! And if the dogs damaged anything, they have our card on file to charge it more... 

We left the hotel with our stomachs in knots. We drove into town, where we had seen a lot of hotels, and Richard began going to every single one to see if they would allow us to stay. 

Everyone said no. Not only was it the off season, but we were also interrupting their siesta to ask questions in a language they didn't know. We tried the next town over, but still no luck.

I started getting more angry. Angry at the hotel and Expedia and myself. After some more searching we decided it was worth calling Expedia to make THEM fix it.

I called, opted for the call back option because it costs less to receive calls than to send them. Waited ten minutes. No call back. Five more minutes.... We decided to call again. This time I stayed on the line and got someone. Of course this someone was your stereotypical call center operator. You know the ones I'm talking about.... Anyways, I explained our situation to him. Nicely explained. (No crazy lady calls for this guy!) He said he would have to call the hotel in Fanari because his system says they are pet friendly with no stipulations. I told him we needed to find another hotel in the area to stay at, but that we can't speak the local language. At which point he says "Well, you should probably keep looking..." 

Right. What a grand idea. I'm really surprised we didn't think of that! 

I insisted that when he called back with the Fanari's answer on our refund that he help us find a hotel. 

After talking to Expedia we decided to head to the bigger town we had passed on the way in and see if maybe a hotel could be found there. 

On our way out of town I noticed a sign for a pretty nice looking hotel down by the beach. 

Hey! Let's take a chance here. We went to check it out. 

We decided it was a good idea to send me in. Who wouldn't take pity on a stranded woman? 

Turned out it was a good idea sending me in! There was a lady at the counter, I asked "Signomi, Milate Agglika?" 

"Rosski (Ruissin?), Deutch (German?)"

"Uh... No..." 

Damn. Now what do I do? We began talking to each other in our own languages accompanied with extravagant gestures. 

"I need one room," 1 finger up. 
"For two people and baby," point to myself and next to me, and cradle my arms...
"And two dogs."
"Dogs..." 
I hold my hand at my hip to show their height...

She looks mildly confused, when another woman walked in. She turned and started asking the other lady questions. I assume she's the boss. She took one look at me (I'm sure I had a frantic and lost look on my face) and walked right up to pinch my cheeks in a loving gesture. It made me smile. 

She said yes to the dogs and wrote down 35€ on a piece of paper. 

YES! I'll take it! 

We got a bit confused from there with each of us trying to communicate so she turns around, picks up the phone and dials someone. She talks quickly into the line and then hands the phone to me. 

There was a gentleman on the phone who speaks English!!! I quickly explained to him what I needed and he says all is fine. We could get the room for 35€. 

Perfect! Absolutely perfect! 

The lady talked to him for a minute longer, grabbed a key and motioned for me to follow. I walked out of the hotel with the biggest smile on my face! I give Richard a big thumbs up where he was sitting in the car. She takes me across the courtyard, upstairs, and into the biggest room we've had yet! It was nice. Clean. And the bed was big! It had its own little porch and sitting area. It was more than perfect for a cheaper price than the one we were staying at originally! And the people were so friendly! 

I gave the little old lady a hug and she in turn squeezed my butt.

Yes. Squeezed. One hand squished. My. Butt. 

Eh, if that's the only extra thing I had to do to get the room I'll take it!!

All I can say about all this is that God provides! We just had a feeling we should check the hotel. I had seen the sign for it on the way to Fanari and had thought we should've stayed there! And on the way back I had the feeling we should check again. I totally chock it up to divine intervention. It looked much too nice to allow dogs from the advertisement, but the women were so friendly and dogs weren't a problem!!! 

We got the baby and dogs out of the car. Everyone instantly fell in love with Rhaps. There was two old women (the ones who checked us in) and three men sitting outside on the porch enjoying coffee and cigarettes. The two ladies were fretting over her. She walked up and stole one of the old men's prayer beads! They all laughed and played with her. This hotel was definitely a good choice! We couldn't actually have a conversation but we were able to communicate nonetheless! 

After getting settled in our room we headed out to get some dinner. It was only 6, and like I said yesterday, most Greeks don't eat until 8, but we decided to take our chances. 

We drove back to Fanari since that was the only place nearby with food, despite the inherent hate we now had for the town. On the way there we were caught up in a huge rainstorm. When we parked at the village there only appeared to be one restaurant even open. Richard braved the weather, at his stomachs insistence, to see if they were serving food. He came back to me to say the place was only serving pizza. He was starving so I gave in. 

When I stepped out of the car, the rain was falling so hard and so fast that the street had turned into a river. The water instantly flowed up and over my shoes. My favourite pair of teal moccasins!!! I quickly removed my shoes and ran to the other side of the car to get Rhapsody. The umbrella I had pulled out did little to protect us as we got Rhaps out of the car and ran to the restaurant. 

By the time, a meer few seconds, we got to the door of the hotel my jeans we soaked clear up to my knees. Richard and I stopped, looked at each other, and just busted out laughing! Today had been the worst, best, stormiest, uncertain day of the trip so far. There were a few men smoking in the restaurant, waiting out the rain, who joined us in our laughter. We looked a mess. Richards clothes and shoes were soaked. My jeans were dripping water everywhere. At least there would be pizza and wine! 

A friend of mine posted a story on Facebook today with some great advice that I think Richard and I are fully coming to believe in. It's all about when the waves of life come towards you, you can run away, but the waves will catch you; you can stand still and let them knock you over; or you can dive deep, ride the wave, and come out a more experienced and better person. 

There are so many reasons we decided to get to Turkey the way we are. We knew it would be hard. We knew it would test us. We didn't forsee all the problems we were going to have, neither did we realise how much we would grow and change. How much we would gain. 

Today was a test. It was difficult. But it was fantastic! We got to watch an amazing storm rage over the sea while we enjoyed dinner with some really nice people. We got to meet some amazing women (Bulgarians by the way! Not even Greek!). And we learned to lean on each other and God for one more day. 

Tomorrow we cross into Turkey. We have two more days of travelling! We will be in Adana on Thursday! I'm excited to start our new life in Turkey. 

Thank you for reading our continuing journey. Now enjoy some pictures!! 


Morning sunrise over the mountains in Greece









This is right outside Fanari, the original town we were supposed to stay in. 



Rhapsody asking for the prayer beads.


He gave them over!!


Our room, half of it anyways! 


This is the front of the hotel, you can't tell but the beach is RIGHT there.





This is the but grabbing, sweet old lady! 


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Tuesday, 1 October 2013

Day 4 and New Friends

Day 4 of our adventurous, ridiculous, insane, wonderful, beautiful, chaotic, delicious (food wise!) and long Journey to Turkey. 

After the whole Brindisi and ferry debacle we were really happy to have a restful day in Igoumenitsa. 

We took a nice long nap then had lunch at our hotel. They even brought the food to the room for us! We had some fantastic spiced chicken, chips, and salad. It was delicious!! 

After lunch we decided to explore around the area for a nice beach to relax on. We drove around the outlying villages, enjoying the beautiful views. After some sightseeing, we decided to watch the waves in a little cove away from anyone. It was nice and relaxing. Just what we needed! 

We returned to our hotel to find our previous parking spot filled. It was street side parking, unfortunately,  and the only spot open was between a little car and a whole row of scooters and motorbikes.... 

Richard and I attempted to parallel park the jeep, nearly hitting several scooters in the process, all in front of the locals because it was right after everyone's Siesta! At one point Richard and I got in an argument that ended with me walking away saying "Then park your car by yourself!" We made up pretty quickly. We're not ones to hold grudges. And eventually we got it parked... We didn't really get the car in the space but since this was Greece, and parking rules don't apply, we just left it where it was... 

We went upstairs to get ready for dinner, which Greeks eat at 8 pm. We decided to just eat at the hotel since lunch was so amazing. 

The owner of the hotel took us to the kitchen and let us sample some of the food. He then prepared our plates and brought them outside. A bunch of locals were outside talking and drinking. A couple of them spoke English so we were able to join conversation!

Once again Rhapsody charmed everyone! She was running around, having a grand time! She has gotten really good about going to other people since we started the trip. She'll just walk right up to someone and start gabbing away. The locals loved her! 

We hung around outside for a while, asking questions and just enjoying conversation. Rhaps went really fussy about 9ish, Richard took her to the room (directly above where we were sitting outside), put her to bed, and she didn't make a sound. She was out! 

Richard rejoined us downstairs and we got learn a lot about Greek culture. We leaned some new words, ("Yamas" for good health in place of cheers), ate some freshly grilled fish caught that day, and had a glass of local made grape liquor called Tipar . We made new friends and had a fantastic time. We promised that if we were ever in Greece again we would stay at the Stavodri again! It was quite easily the best night of the trip so far.

We called it a night early since we wanted to get out of the hotel and on the road earlier than normal tomorrow.



***I'm not taking pictures of everything I talk about because we've just had so much fun experiencing everything that I forget about pictures!***





Playing in the rocks!


Look at that crazy hair! 


Took the jeep off-roading a bit. It was pretty fun!!



Love! 


Where we hung out for our relaxing waves! The surf was a bit rough so we couldn't swim...



The front of our hotel at night. It was really nice! 


Dinner!! Yummy!!


I missed Rhaps and the owner (man in blue) cuddling, this was what I captured instead! 


Reeeeally good fish! 


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Sunday, 29 September 2013

Day 2 With Free Wine

Day 2 of our adventurous, ridiculous, insane, wonderful, beautiful and long Journey to Turkey. 

Today was an amazing drive! 

We woke up this morning and went downstairs for the "French buffet." Too bad a French buffet breakfast consists of croissants, pastries, and fruit. I can't stand sweet breakfasts so I stuck with a couple croissants (which were delicious!) and a banana. 

After breakfast we quickly loaded up the car, paid, and got on the road by about 9 am. 

A ways down the road we hit another toll and once again it wouldn't take our card. We'd tried finding an ATM on our way out of Bourge en Bresse, but had failed. We hit the call button. A French voice come through. 

"Parlez-vois Anglais?" 

"Non. Carte non acceptimleebe..." (Close enough right? I'm writing this on the road without the use of google!) 

"Yeah, we got that. We have no cash either."

Insert some more French here that sounded like "Pull forward to the office." And the barrier in front of us went up. 

We went to the information/office, Richard paid with the card inside (the card wants a signature, hence the reason it doesn't work in some automated machines!) 

We decided at this point to take a small break as it's been a couple hours of driving. We let the dogs out the back, still on the lead. In the process of jumping out Nali knocked his favorite squeaky ball out of the car. It made its way to the side of the motorway. Richard ran down the hill to grab it and tossed it back to the top. Too bad we own big dogs who are very good pullers... Athena jumped for the ball, breaking her lead in the process, and had a nice galavant across the parking lot. Thank GOD it was Athena whose lead broke. Nali is a runner. Athena is a lover. We quickly grabbed hold of Athena. After examining the lead we saw that she'd pulled the metal links out. Great. Now our lead is broken. We just tied the lead to her collar, put the dogs back in the car, and got on the road again. 

Richard and I aren't really fans of the French countryside. I might have said that yesterday. It is just boring and flat and boring. However. Southern France was BEAUTIFUL! We drove through the alps, which was quite easily the most amazing drive ever. We didn't even mind the traffic. It was hard to capture in picture form the amazing views, snowcapped mountains and waterfalls but I tried anyways. 

Most of the drive in the mountains was on these huge bridges. Each side of the road had their own bridge. The bridges wove in and out of each other. It was beautiful. It was nerve wracking.

Ever since I was little I've had a fear of heights and bridges especially. I remember having a nightmare where our car went over the Golden Gate Bridge and landed in the waters below. Bridges make me very nervous. I took some video of our drive yesterday and you can hear me saying, "Oh my God, I'm going to be sick... Seriously... I'm freaking out right now..." I just get a huge knot in my stomach with fear on bridges like that. The pictures and videos I took just can't properly express the sheer height and beauty of driving through those mountains... 

We eventually pulled up to the Monte Blanc tunnel. For 40€ we drove for 45 minutes straight through the mountain and voila! we were in Italy! 

We still had about an hour of driving through beautiful mountains. There were ruins, old decrepit houses, and rows of fruit everywhere. Every house seemed to have its own mini vineyard! Oh Italy. Your AMAZING! 

After an hour or so of driving through Italy we realised we knew NO Italian... I only knew thank you and hello... 

Deciding to take advantage of my 25 mb of data a day through my phone I did some quick research and downloaded a travellers guide to speaking Italian podcast. We ended up not needing it too much, but it's nice to have the knowledge anyways! 

The rest of our driving was fairly uneventful. All the other tolls took our credit card with no problem. No more embarrassing communications with toll staff. We ended up on a back road through Italian farm land, admiring all the beautiful old homes. We enjoyed the remaining part of our trip until we got to Rimini. 

Rimini is a cute little city right on the sea. It is, however a city. The driving was crazy, even the GPS struggled! Our hotel was situated in a HUGE district of hotels along the beach. It was literally block upon block of hotels. All with one way streets! We missed the turn for the hotel the first time around, and had to drive around the block. Everyone was parked on the streets making it a bit of a tight fit for us and the Jeep.  We found a spot along the street, unloaded all living beings and walked the block and a half to the hotel. 

Richard walked in with the baby, and I hung outside on the porch with Nali and Athena. 

The lady who was checking in turned around, her face immediately lighting up with joy at seeing Rhapsody. She started talking away in Italian to Rhapstouching her face and hands. Once again proof that my kid is awesome! The lady, whose name my husband and I unfortunately forget, came out to me and the dogs talking to Richard and Rhapsody with the loveliest accent. She asks us where our car is, and when we tell her down the street she insists that we park in the driveway by the hotel since we have the dogs and baby. Athena takes that exact moment to urinate on the front porch. Seriously. Pee. ON THE PORCH. I was so embarrassed! Then Nali decided he had to mark his territory. On the herb pots. SERIOUSLY! Just lifted his leg and sprayed. I could murder those dogs! I was tempted to just drop the leads and point to someone near by saying, "Hey! Your dogs peed everywhere. I don't want them anymore!" I think she would've known I was lying...

Since it was after 8 pm I was starving so we asked where a good restaurant or pizzeria was. She offered to order the pizza for us. I went upstairs with the monsters by use of the most rickety, tiny, scary elevator ever while Richard unloaded the car. Our hotel room was massive! And very very nice.

Richards first trip upstairs resulted in the dogs breaking for freedom while we were distracted. Nali made it down three flights of stairs before I managed to grab a hold of his hair and yank him down. Freaking dog. 

After all was said and done Richard came back upstairs with complementary wine and whiskey. Have I mentioned how much I LOVE Italy. FREE wine! They were unable to order delivery so Richard went on the hunt for pizza while I turn on Italian Despicable Me. 

Richard came back with a huge slice of pizza he got for free because they didn't take card. It helped that the workers were Turkish and he'd mentioned that we were moving to Adana. 

Today was quite a bit less eventful than yesterday. A welcome break. Our hotel is really nice, the staff super friendly. 

Tomorrow we drive 6 and a half hours to Brindisi to catch the night ferry to Greece. I look forward to driving along the coast of Italy, seeing the ocean and enjoying the view of the country I could easily live in. 



An automated machine that gives me an Americani with Crema.... I may be in love!


I wish I'd had a more time to explore here. The picture quality isn't good, but the roof of that church was AMAZING.


Why hello mountain!



The sun was sitting on top of that mountain all day! But he is snowcapped...



Oh. Traffic.



I didn't notice the piece of trash being tossed at the first glance. It just looked like "Don't jump out your car!" to me...


So. Many. Bugs. Anyways, I told you that the sun just sat on the Mountain the whole day!


Sooooo many tunnels! Seriously. All we drive through are huge tunnels.



Tunnel Du Mt. Blanc 3 km!


Just outside the Mt. Blanc tunnel! 





Just Italy! 



Here's the countryside road we got put on for a few miles.


"Are we there yet?"


FREE wine! 

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Thursday, 9 May 2013

My Advice? You Got This!!

Blog Every Day In May
Day 8, Wednesday: A piece of advice you have for others. Anything at all.

So I'm doing this a day late because I was travelling all yesterday (whoot!) I made the LOOONG flight from Seattle, Washington to Atlanta, Georgia. Complete with a layover in Midway. My little Rhapsody did amazingly. More amazingly than I could ever have expected, in fact. So today (or yesterday's) blog is all about my baby. Or more specifically, your baby!



One thing I have learnt over these past 19 months of motherhood (and I say 19, because I believe motherhood begins the moment you become pregnant) is that not everyone's good advice is, well, good advice FOR YOU. Some advice works really well for some people, but not quite so well with others. I say all this, because my advice to you may not work for your family or your baby, but I hope that my words can give inspiration and thought to the way in which you think about your child.

Let your baby do their thing, whatever their thing may be! Don't stress about it, you and your baby will figure this out, whatever this is.

As a mom I am told what to do, how to do it, and how often I should do it. The one thing I have learned is that if I just let my baby do her thing, there is so much less stress in my life. If Rhapsody wants a cuddle, I give her a cuddle. If she wants a diaper change, I surely change that diaper. She didn't want baby food, I researched and found a better way to introduce food to her. She didn't want to lay on her back in the bath, I found a seat for her. She wants to crawl, and play unhindered of mommy, I taught her the meaning of "No," and let her do her thing when it wasn't about to harm her or my doggies. I just let Rhapsody tell me how I should take care of her. And tell me she does. I just take the time to observe her, and she knows me (afterall, I did bring her into this world).

Don't stress. It has become my motto. I was so worried about this flight across the country. We would be confined to our seats on the plane. Rhapsody does NOT like confinement one bit. She likes FREEEDOM! She wants to crawl, walk, and happily scream at you. And that's exactly what I did on the plane. On our first flight, 4 hours long, we walked up and down the aisles, her holding onto my fingers until she decided she wanted to crawl (and get into peoples bags!) The flight attendants learned her name, and she gave everyone a smile on the plane with her happy bouncy and drooly smile. I didn't stress, and Rhapsody got exactly what she needed! She even took a little nap after such a long parade across the aisles! After the flight everyone kept saying how they couldn't believe how well she did. At Midway we got some food, and I let Rhaps roam free in the terminal. Then she took a nap most of the next flight until we landed in Atlanta! As far as trips go this one was pretty good for flights! No screaming, angry babies, or crazy haired momma's. All because I didn't stress. We just worked this out.

You do what you need to do to be a good momma, and you will be a GOOD momma! My dear friend Kari said something similar to me once and I carry it with me every day.



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Wednesday, 3 April 2013

Oh Taylor, Honey, Grow Up!

Here's a dirty little secret... And it even has to do with a song. I LOVE Taylor Swift. I like singing her tunes, and think she's fantastical. However. Her new song, "22," is ridiculous! If you would like you can review the lyrics below, if, however you are like me and already know the lyrics please feel free to skip all the "ah ah, oh yeahs!"


"It feels like a perfect night to dress up like hipsters
And make fun of our exes, ah ah, ah ah.
It feels like a perfect night for breakfast at midnight
To fall in love with strangers, ah ah, ah ah.

Yeah,
We're happy, free, confused, and lonely at the same time
It's miserable and magical, oh, yeah
Tonight's the night when we forget about the deadlines
It's time

Uh oh!
I don't know about you
But I'm feeling 22
Everything will be alright
If you keep me next to you
You don't know about me
But I'll bet you want to
Everything will be alright
If we just keep dancing like we're
22
22

It seems like one of those nights,
This place is too crowded.
Too many cool kids, ah ah, ah ah (who's Taylor Swift anyway, ew?)
It seems like one of those nights,
We ditch the whole scene and end up dreaming
Instead of sleeping.

Yeah,
We're happy, free, confused, and lonely in the best way
It's miserable and magical, oh, yeah
Tonight's the night when we forget about the heartbreaks
It's time

Uh oh!
I don't know about you
But I'm feeling 22
Everything will be alright
If you keep me next to you
You don't know about me
But I'll bet you want to
Everything will be alright (alright)
If we just keep dancing like we're
22
22
I don't know about you
22
22

It feels like one of those nights,
We ditch the whole scene.
It feels like one of those nights,
We won't be sleeping.
It feels like one of those nights,
You look like bad news,
I gotta have you,
I gotta have you.

Oh oh yeah hey!
I don't know about you
But I'm feeling 22
Everything will be alright
If you keep me next to you
You don't know about me (you don't know about me)
But I'll bet you want to
Everything will be alright
If we just keep dancing like we're
22
22
22, yeah, yeah
22, yeah, yeah, yeah

It feels like one of those nights,
We ditch the whole scene
It feels like one of those nights,
We won't be sleeping
It feels like one of those nights,
You look like bad news,
I gotta have you,
I gotta have you."



Maybe I only have an issue with this song because I AM 22, but don't you think that by 22 you should be over getting with guys who "look like bad news?" I don't want to live in a world where being 22 doesn't mean you behave like an Adult! I understand that some 22 year olds aren't in the same place as me (married, with a child, living in England and traveling the world), but a lot of 22 year olds are graduating college, should be holding down full time jobs, and shouldn't be partying, kissing strangers, and being...well... Stupid! Yeah, 22 is young, there is TONS of life left before you, but by 22 you should be able to "have fun" like a smart person! I have tons of fun and I do it with my husband, my child, and my sensibilities. I mean for goodness sake I am only 22 years old and I lack the fear that so many have about travelling the world. I'm sure I sound like a grouchy old woman who can't take the "lightheartedness" of this song. However, it is songs, ideas, and social interactions like this that encourage people to remain children, to not grow up. Our world has allowed for people who are over the age of 22 to remain at the mental age of 18. We no longer expect people to "act their age," but instead tell people to live their lives as they will. People are going about still living with mommy and daddy at 2/, they aren't taking on responsibilities. I realise that I am not your average 22 year old, yes. I "grew up" at the age of 16 when I had two full time jobs and was still in high school. However, I was expected to pay for my things and I was expected to grow up, so I did. As soon as we quite expecting people to be responsible, responsibility went out the window. So go ahead, live your life like your 22. Have a job. Have meaningful relationships. Have loads of fun. Travel the world. But be grown up. Sorry Taylor. Not a fan of this new "hit."